People are trying to agure about who are right or wrong when taking in to debates/ quarrels. Most of the time, without personal emotion, is essential to have a result. You know the result of one same decision is necessary.
But my advice is don’t apply it for your emotion matter. It broke everything that you had build for your relationship. People need to be keep their chin up and be wrong but right. People need to be spoiled your emotional time , you know. To me, it is no matter it is right or wrong, legal or eligible, iff it make me happy to do, I do it. How about you?
Just say thank you the one who can treasure you and stand for you.
Don’t try to find answer if the others don’t.